Sometimes I wonder what it takes to get a man that claims to be a REAL MAN, to fess up and to take accountability for what lowlife activity he managed to pull off. Accountability avoidance seems to be a very popular activity these days when it comes to some fathers (namely mine) walking away from their potential future problems (me). Also, what kind of a woman can't keep her man at home? One that apparently loved him enough to give him children and that she knew that losing him because of her lack of sexual performance capabilities would have an effect on how her kids turned out. Or a lack of being able to provide a supportive personality when her husband falls due to her own character defect. It's safe to assume that this situation was the case. I mean, How otherwise could that have happened? How is it then that I came about?
Look at the times we live in. EVERYBODY IS DIVORCED! The lawyers make it far too easy to just walk away just so they can get their cut. Leaving the guy (IN MOST CASES) to just dangle in the wind. It's the physically unattractive feminist male lawyer and politician who make the invitation to the man in the "family" to leave the family. $$$
But I mean look at these people. One is a doctor that has kids in the local medical profession. That are "fashionably" divorced just because they made the careless mistake of hooking up with the wrong person. One namely being a judge. Guess who has to pay for their mistakes. The daughter.
She's going to turn out like all the other women thinking that it's okay to just walk away when she doesn't get her way, or that he doesn't stay in their bed just because she did something that made him pull away. It's a learned behavior.
I'm divorced and I blame myself for it happening. I don't have self condemnation due to the fact that I was drawn into a toxic family and that I could have made a difference if I would have had the chance to make the right choices. But I always say. That if it happens to you, it's your fault. Right?
It's tough when kids are involved an they (the parents) have a tendency to dangle your kids right in front of you if they lose control of you and don't get what they want. It's just part of the character disorder that those particular type of parents have.
All I know is that this asshole of a biological father doesn't do the right thing, more of his decedents will meet me eventually, or my kids, and go down in history knowing the TRUTH about grandpa Stanley or uncle or great uncle or whatever his relationship is or was to them. Due to the expansion and proliferation of the web as well as the bill of rights. I'll be able to click my way into their lives and run him into the ground even after he's in the ground.
I'm divorced and I blame myself for it happening. I don't have self condemnation due to the fact that I was drawn into a toxic family and that I could have made a difference if I would have had the chance to make the right choices. But I always say. That if it happens to you, it's your fault. Right?
It's tough when kids are involved an they (the parents) have a tendency to dangle your kids right in front of you if they lose control of you and don't get what they want. It's just part of the character disorder that those particular type of parents have.
All I know is that this asshole of a biological father doesn't do the right thing, more of his decedents will meet me eventually, or my kids, and go down in history knowing the TRUTH about grandpa Stanley or uncle or great uncle or whatever his relationship is or was to them. Due to the expansion and proliferation of the web as well as the bill of rights. I'll be able to click my way into their lives and run him into the ground even after he's in the ground.
